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I am a Very Slow Thinker

From the book “Hell Yeah or No” by Derek Sivers. When a friend says something interesting to me, I usually don’t have a reaction until much later. When someone asks me a deep question, I say, “Hmm. I don’t know.” The next day, I have an answer. I’m a disappointing person to try to debate or attack. I just have nothing to say in the moment, except maybe, “Good point.” Then a few days later, after thinking about it a lot, I have a response.
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Big Gay Loneliness

This study is not scientific in any sense of the word, nor does it claim to be. Moreover, being deeply subjective and expressing not objective truth, but the author’s own deeply biased views and experiences, it should be read more like a work of fiction. Again: my aim is to mostly talk about personal experience. Generalizing it and writing in third person makes more sense to me at this time.